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Grey Divorce

What is Grey Divorce?

Thursday 16th of May 2024
By: Stephanie Svendsen, Practice Support Manager and www.50spluslifestyle.com.au

I would like to thank you for your advice during my difficult time with my marriage quite a number of years ago now.  Life is good and so is the marriage.

What is grey divorce?  Gillian Coote speaks to 50s Plus Lifestyle.

Grey divorce, also known as silver splitters, refers to the increasing trend of older couples, typically aged 50 and above, ending their long-lasting marriages.  This demographic shift is evident in Australia, where one in three divorcing couples decide to part ways after reaching the age of 50.

The primary causes of these later-in-life divorces can often stem from factors such as empty nest syndrome, increased financial pressures, and adjustments to retirement.  Navigating a grey divorce can be emotionally challenging, as individuals reassess their relationships and life paths.  However, it's essential to remember that finding happiness and contentment post-divorce is achievable. 

Why are Australians divorcing later in life?

Later-life divorces in Australia are increasingly influenced by factors such as empty nest syndrome, financial pressures, and changing life priorities. 

The empty next syndrome, where parents struggle with the transition after their children leave home, can bring hidden relationship issues to the surface.  Financial strains and the adjustment to retirement can also strain marriages as couples spend more time together.

Different life aspirations may emerge, leading individuals to prioritize their own happiness without compromise. Societal changes have reduced the stigma around divorce, making it easier for people to navigate these life changes without feeling ashamed.

How is grey divorce different? 

When navigating a grey divorce, you may notice distinct differences that set it apart from divorces at earlier stages in life. Grey divorce, occurring after the age of 50, often involves unique challenges compared to divorces at younger ages.

One key difference is the impact on retirement plans. Dividing retirement accounts and benefits becomes more complex, especially for couples who’ve been saving for years. Additionally, the financial repercussions of grey divorce can be more significant, affecting retirees and empty nesters who may face challenges in asset distribution and maintaining financial stability.

Moreover, the emotional aspect of ending a long-term marriage later in life can be particularly challenging, as individuals may have spent decades together, making the process of uncoupling more intricate. Understanding these differences can help you navigate the complexities of grey divorce with more clarity and insight.

As you navigate the landscape of grey divorce, understanding these reasons can help you prepare for the challenges ahead, including asset division, financial considerations, and the impact on family dynamics.

Legal Considerations

Navigating the legal landscape of grey divorce requires a clear understanding of your rights and obligations. When going through a grey divorce, it’s crucial to consider factors like property division, spousal support, and retirement assets. Consult with a qualified family lawyer specialising in family law to guide you through the process.

Ensure all financial accounts, wills, and beneficiary designations are updated to reflect your new circumstances. Understand the implications of any existing prenuptial agreements or postnuptial agreements you may have in place.

Keep communication lines open with your ex-spouse to facilitate smoother negotiations and agreements. Prioritise your well-being and seek legal counsel to protect your interests during this challenging time.

With a career spanning 30 years, Gillian Coote, Founder and Managing Partner at Coote Family Lawyers, is well acquainted with the intricacies involved in the divorce process of those who part ways later in life.

“While challenges are involved with divorcing later in life, it can also be a very empowering event for people. Having the opportunity to prioritise your own needs and wants can be extremely liberating. And this is especially true if an individual has dedicated much of their adult life to their marriage and raising children.”

“Separation can be challenging for couples of any age, but divorce over the age of 50 can come with additional unique complexities for the management of pensions, superannuation, wills and estates, and retirement plans.” 

“Individuals who have been married for a long time can often be retired, or close to retirement, and this has the potential to negatively impact their ability to rebuild their financial position following divorce. It’s really important to seek expert legal advice during separation so you can understand exactly what you are entitled to financially and with your property settlement.”

You can read the full article here: What is Grey Divorce?

If you have any questions or concerns regarding your relationship, call our team of top Melbourne family lawyers on 03 9804 0035.




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