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Separated but living together

Tuesday 27th of May 2025
By: Stephanie Svendsen, Practice Support Manager and Mamamia

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Speaking with Mamamia, Annelis Bos discusses the trend of separated couples continuing to live together - and the importance of setting clear boundaries in these arrangements

An increasing number of separated couples are continuing to live under the same roof, largely due to the cost of living, Annelis Bos, Partner at Coote Family Lawyers told Mamamia.

While this arrangement can work well, there are legal implications to consider.

"Exes who remain living together during the required 12-month separation period before filing for divorce need to prove to the court they were actually separated during that time," Annelis said.

"For this reason, it's important for couples to set up clear boundaries from the start and take deliberate steps to live independently, even while sharing the same physical space."

That means sleeping in separate rooms, maintaining separate lives, and making it clear to friends and family that you've well and truly split up.

"Getting legal advice early on from a lawyer specialising in family law is one of the best things you can do to protect both your finances and your peace of mind in the long run," Annelis advised.

You can read the full article, including one individual's personal experience of living with her ex, here.

Coote Family Lawyers are recognised as one of the top divorce law firms in Melbourne.  If you need advice, call us now on 003 9804 0035 .




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